11 little things men secretly love about the woman they love
When a man falls in love with a woman, there are many small or less obvious things about her and her personality that will bring a smile—not only on his face but also in his heart.
So, what are some things that the guy in your life might like but might not have told you?
11 things men love about women and you’ll see that it’s the little things that really matter.
1- He likes the way he smiles when he thinks of you.
It doesn’t matter if he’s stressed at work, stuck in traffic, or just bored browsing Facebook. If a guy is lucky, a woman will come into his life who can make him smile without being in the same zip code.
Just thinking of her or hearing her name will light up like fireworks on the Fourth of July. What do you not like about it?
2- He likes when he makes you smile.
Have you ever noticed a guy who seems to gain momentum when he’s being funny? Even with his impeccable sense of humor, he was definitely trying his best.
A man loves to see the women in his life smile, laugh, and have a good time. More than that, he loves being the source of that smile, even if it means telling her stupid jokes to make her laugh while spending time with her.
3- He likes to play with his hair while driving.
I wish I could give a more scientific explanation for this, but all I can say is that it’s the best thing ever.
4- He likes the way you smile after kissing you.
Did you know that euphoric rush you get when you kiss the right person? That feeling of endorphins and emotions that seem to take over you? That spark you feel when you kiss him or her?
Sometimes, there’s no other reaction to that feeling than just…smiling. A smile attracts men, and when you smile, men love it. In fact, this is what men find most attractive in a woman.
5- He likes to notice you looking at him.
Men, like everyone else, crave to feel wanted. A lot of times, we get caught up in a relationship and feel as though we’re constantly trying to prove ourselves in order to get a woman’s attention, first date, second date… you get the idea.
6- When we are with a woman who we feel really wants to be with us and who gives us the same
affection and effort as we give her and who we feel might fall in love with us – there is no better feeling in the world.
7- He loves when you do that funny little thing you probably don’t even know you’re doing.
Maybe you wrinkle your nose when you laugh, or maybe you hit him (softly) on the shoulder when you’re (a little) angry. Funny traits are the things guys find attractive in you. Maybe you play with your hair when you’re a little nervous.
Whatever the case, you can do it naturally, but he notes — that’s what he loves most about a woman’s body that isn’t quite physical.
He notices it because that’s one of the many little things that separates you from any other woman he’s ever met, and he loves her.
8- He likes to feel natural with you.
I was going to call this “He Likes the Way He Shouldn’t Try” to convey the idea that things should come easy, but obviously every man (and woman) should make a consistent effort and try to make the relationship work.
However, two people can be completely comfortable together and their relationship will feel natural, and sometimes things happen that you wouldn’t expect to feel.
They will be satisfied, but not in a boring way. When a man feels good, in a way that makes you sigh deeply, sigh happily and look into each other’s eyes while thinking, “So, that’s the way it’s supposed to be,” that makes him deeply in love with a woman.
9- He likes to go to you for advice.
When you truly respect someone for who they are and the things they think, you value their opinions over the thoughts of others. You want to get their advice. You want to hear their opinion on your latest dilemma. You want to get their input and perspective.
If the man in your life not only asks for your opinion but takes it into consideration and treats it in his decisions, consider it a great sign.
10- He loves when you embody him.
And no, I don’t just mean in bed (although no guy would ever complain about the woman in his life starting things there). I’m referring to the little ways you show affection.
Guys love random hugs, random kisses on the cheek, a random hand on his knee while you’re sitting next to him, or an arm around him while you’re walking. These are things that are, dare I say, more intimate than sleeping together and are what men find sexually attractive.
Any two people who are attracted to each other can jump into bed, but smaller physical gestures are things you only do with someone you really care about. They are things that literally bind us together, gather your energy and make you and me.
11- He likes to look you in the eye.
Looking into another person’s eyes can be a little embarrassing. You’re not really sure where to look, which eye to look at, or if you can just look at the bridge of their nose.
But not with you. When he looks into your eyes, any embarrassment dissipates, and excitement takes its place. It was replaced by hope. It is replaced by love – a love that can only grow between two people who open windows to their souls and allow one access by embracing the other. The peace and quiet that catches your eye, don’t stray away from it.
When a woman is right for a man — I mean, when she’s really right for him — there’s never going to be a list long enough to explain all the things he likes about her.
There is no word strong enough to describe how he feels. There will never be a way for him to express how much he cares for her.
All he’ll be able to do when you ask him, “What are you looking for?” She smiles, shakes his head, and says, “Nothing.” Because sometimes, that’s all he can muster.
But believe me, it’s just his way of telling you that there are not enough words, only your love will do.